A science of connection. A therapy for growth.

datEQ draws on the same research that informs modern couples therapy, brought into the way we match people.

Step 1: What the assessment explores

Compatibility across Attachment, Communication, Conflict & Repair, Emotional Regulation, Support, Maturity, Intimacy, Family, Roles.

Step 2: A conversation with a therapist

  • How do you handle conflict in close relationships?
  • What does emotional safety look like for you?
  • What are your non-negotiables in a partner?
Where most people are

Unsure of yourself

  • Self-doubt in relationships
  • Avoidant patterns
  • Inconsistent boundaries
  • Seeking external validation
Where datEQ helps you get there

Secure in yourself

  • Self-awareness in relationships
  • Secure attachment
  • Consistent boundaries
  • Internal validation

What you walk away with

  • A full compatibility profile

    Your personality and compatibility profile across all 9 dimensions.

  • Personal growth and introspection

    Insights that are useful whether you find a match or not.

  • What your circle thinks

    The people who know you best can weigh in, anonymously.

  • Everyone walks away with insight

    Even if we can't match you yet, you'll know yourself better.

We don't just match people. We help people become better partners.