A science of connection. A therapy for growth.

datEQ draws on the same research that informs modern couples therapy, brought into the way we match people.

Step 1: What the assessment explores

Compatibility across Attachment, Communication, Conflict & Repair, Emotional Regulation, Support, Maturity, Intimacy, Family, Roles.
  • Attachment: you 4.3 of 5, match 4 of 5.
  • Communication: you 4 of 5, match 4.2 of 5.
  • Conflict & Repair: you 3.6 of 5, match 3.9 of 5.
  • Emotional Regulation: you 4.4 of 5, match 4.1 of 5.
  • Support: you 4.1 of 5, match 3.7 of 5.
  • Maturity: you 3.9 of 5, match 4.1 of 5.
  • Intimacy: you 4.5 of 5, match 4.2 of 5.
  • Family: you 3.4 of 5, match 3.7 of 5.
  • Roles: you 4 of 5, match 3.8 of 5.

Step 2: A conversation with a therapist

  • How do you handle conflict in close relationships?
  • What does emotional safety look like for you?
  • What are your non-negotiables in a partner?
Where most people are

Unsure of yourself

  • Self-doubt in relationships
  • Avoidant patterns
  • Inconsistent boundaries
  • Seeking external validation
Where datEQ helps you get there

Secure in yourself

  • Self-awareness in relationships
  • Secure attachment
  • Consistent boundaries
  • Internal validation

What you walk away with

Better relationships, built on knowing yourself.

  • A full compatibility profile

    Your personality and compatibility profile across all 19 dimensions.

  • Personal growth and introspection

    Insights that are useful whether you find a match or not.

  • Everyone walks away with insight

    Even if we can't match you yet, you'll know yourself better.

We don't just match people. We help people become better partners.